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Pride & Prejudice, Volume I, chapter 6

The Bingley Sisters

Miss Bingley and Mrs Hurst work to establish a friendship with Jane, and they allow that her sister Elizabeth is okay to socialize with as well. They are pretty much horrified by Mrs Bennet and the younger three sisters, however. Jane seems to like both of Mr Bingley's sisters just fine, although Elizabeth can't really stand them because they consider themselves so superior.


Charlotte Lucas on love and flirtation

Now, we've already established that Charlotte is an intelligent, pragmatic sort of woman with a keen sense of observation. She is also seven years older than Lizzie, who we will learn is twenty somewhere in Volume II. (I don't consider the main character's age to be a spoiler, do you?) We can therefore assume that Charlotte has a somewhat better understanding of the workings of the world than Lizzie does, even if we don't agree with all her opinions.

When Lizzie tells Charlotte that Jane seems to be in the early stages of falling in love with Bingley, she also mentions how happy she is that it's not blatantly obvious to everyone around them. Charlotte begs to differ:

". . .[I]t is sometimes a disadvantage to be so very guarded. If a woman conceals her affection with the same skill from the object of it, she may lose the opportunity of fixing him; and it will then be but poor consolation to believe the world equally in the dark. There is so much of gratitude or vanity in almost every attachment, that it is not safe to leave any to itself. We can all begin freely -- a slight preference is natural enough; but there are very few of us who have heart enough to be really in love without encouragement. In nine cases out of ten, a woman had better show more affection than she feels. Bingley likes your sister undoubtedly; but he may never do more than like her, if she does not help him on."

On the one hand, I'm pretty certain that most of us laugh at Charlotte along with Lizzie; on the other, if you stopped that quote before the "In nine cases out of ten" line, I'm pretty sure most of us would agree that there is a lot of truth in Charlotte's words: they might move from regular conversation to flirtation, for instance, early on - but without actual encouragement from the other party, most people move on, figuring the other person is uninterested.

Charlotte's end point is that Jane is so reserved that, given the limited amount of social action she and Bingley have together, he might not realize that she likes him, since he can't come to realize how reserved she actually is to realize that her showing any preference is quite a big deal. You can sort of hear the troubled string music starting under Charlotte's words, if you listen carefully to this particular passage - another example of foreshadowing done so very well that some people don't realize it's here.

Speaking of foreshadowing, let's look at Charlotte's and Lizzie's final exchange:

"Well," said Charlotte, "I wish Jane success with all my heart; and if she were married to him to-morrow, I should think she had as good a chance of happiness as if she were to be studying his character for a twelvemonth. Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other, or ever so similar before-hand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always contrive to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of vexation; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life."

"You make me laugh, Charlotte; but it is not sound. You know it is not sound, and that you would never act in this way yourself."

To which I (and possibly Charlotte) say: "Oh really?"

Meanwhile, let's look in on Mr Darcy's thoughts, shall we?

Whereas Lizzie has dug in her heels with respect to her initial impression of Mr Darcy, he has found himself somewhat mortified to discover that his rather ungenerous assessment of Lizzie is changing - and that despite his initial antipathy toward her, he finds her rather attractive after all.

Occupied in observing Mr Bingley's attentions to her sister, Elizabeth was far from suspecting that she was herself becoming an object of some interest in the eyes of his friend. Mr Darcy had at first scarcely allowed her to be pretty; he had looked at her without admiration at the ball; and when they next met, he looked at her only to criticise. But no sooner had he made it clear to himself and his friends that she had hardly a good feature in her face, than he began to find it was rendered uncommonly intelligent by the beautiful expression of her dark eyes. To this discovery succeeded some others equally mortifying. Though he had detected with a critical eye more than one failure of perfect symmetry in her form, he was forced to acknowledge her figure to be light and pleasing; and in spite of his asserting that her manners were not those of the fashionable world, he was caught by their easy playfulness. Of this she was perfectly unaware; -- to her he was only the man who made himself agreeable no where, and who had not thought her handsome enough to dance with.

He began to wish to know more of her, and as a step towards conversing with her himself, attended to her conversation with others.

Elizabeth, acting on her own perverse sense of humor, verbally jousts with Mr Darcy in a way that he is completely unused to - he's used to sycophants like Caroline Bingley, who are throwing their cap at him because he is tall, handsome and filthy rich. Having someone like Lizzie banter with him without seeming interested in "catching" him is a complete breath of fresh air for him, increasing her appeal (without her realizing that he finds her in any way appealing at all). Without realizing it, Elizabeth has stumbled onto Mr Darcy's preferred method of flirtation. It's all so very amusing to us as readers (and to Charlotte Lucas, I believe, as well), as we sit and watch them strike sparks at cross-purposes.

Charlotte presses Lizzie to play and sing for the company, and although she does neither exceptionally well, she doesn't exactly suck, either. Plus she's attractive and spirited, and therefore makes a good impression. Mary, her next younger sister, takes her place at the keyboard. Poor Mary: "in consequence of being the only plain one in the family, worked hard for knowledge and accomplishments, [and] was always impatient for display." After showing off with a rather ambitious concerto (probably played okay technically, but lacking any true musicality), the youngest Bennet sisters (Kitty and Lydia) press her into playing songs so they can dance.

Mr Darcy is rather aghast that the evening, which was supposed to be filled with conversation and light entertainment, has turned into something approaching a Regency hootenanny. He's shocked out of his musings on the lack of culture displayed by Elizabeth's younger siblings by the kind (but overly officious) Sir William Lucas.

"What a charming amusement for young people this is, Mr Darcy! -- There is nothing like dancing after all. -- I consider it as one of the first refinements of polished societies."

"Certainly, Sir; -- and it has the advantage also of being in vogue amongst the less polished societies of the world. -- Every savage can dance."

Mr Darcy tells Sir William that he tries whenever possible NOT to dance, so Sir William does what people like Sir William do - he tries to get Mr Darcy to dance. With Elizabeth. Who is having none of it. So of course Darcy is all "No really, I'd like to dance with you," which pushes her to the "Sod off, I don't need your pity" place, and it's all completely wonderful.

And then, while Darcy is musing on how charming Elizabeth Bennet is, Caroline Bingley swoops up to him and assumes that he's pondering how horribly tedious the whole evening is, only to have him tell her that he's thinking how attractive a pair of "fine eyes" can be. Caroline (who would reallyreallyreally like to land Darcy for herself) fishes to find out who the young lady might be, and you can almost hear her deflate like a punctured soufflé at his (and I point this out on purpose) exceedingly honest response: "Miss Elizabeth Bennet."

"Miss Elizabeth Bennet!" repeated Miss Bingley. "I am all astonishment. How long has she been such a favourite? -- and pray when am I to wish you joy?"

"That is exactly the question which I expected you to ask. A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony, in a moment. I knew you would be wishing me joy."

"Nay, if you are so serious about it, I shall consider the matter as absolutely settled. You will have a charming mother-in-law, indeed, and of course she will be always at Pemberley with you."

He listened to her with perfect indifference while she chose to entertain herself in this manner, and as his composure convinced her that all was safe, her wit flowed long.

A few things to note in this exchange: (1) Again, Darcy was completely honest with Caroline about what he was thinking and who it related to; (2) Darcy's comeback about how quickly women imagine a happy ending is pretty darn hilarious (and again, based in truth); (3) Darcy has unwittingly drawn a huge target on Elizabeth with respect to Caroline, as Austen makes clear when Miss Bingley "immediately fixes her eyes" on Lizzie; (4) He does nothing to dispute Caroline's opinion that Mrs Bennet is atrocious; and (5) In this instance, he does absolutely nothing to stop Caroline from going on at length about Elizabeth and her family.

I seriously wish I could have found a video clip of this conversation to share with you, but alas, I've had no luck as of yet (and not for want of at least an hour's time trying). Should that change, I'll come back and post it.


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nottygypsy
Jan. 6th, 2011 10:38 pm (UTC)
But in the A&E Colin Firth version, Caroline stops at "All astonishment" very disappointing.

Loved what Charlotte was saying, Bingley doesn't know and later... well I'll wait.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 01:22 am (UTC)
I hear you on that second point that you didn't make, which is one of the reasons I flagged Charlotte so much here. It's easy to blow her off here and in the prior chapter, but all of her predicted chickens come home to roost (as it were).
nottygypsy
Jan. 7th, 2011 01:46 am (UTC)
All comments I want to make here are jumping ahead, I hope I remember them when their chapter comes.
tessagratton
Jan. 6th, 2011 10:52 pm (UTC)
OMG I love this book.

WHO DOESN'T LOVE THIS BOOK?
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 01:23 am (UTC)
I know, right? I'm doing a chapter a day, having started on January 1st. It is most excellent fun!
rachelswardrobe
Jan. 6th, 2011 11:56 pm (UTC)
'Any savage can dance' hee hee!

If I had a youtube account and knew how to do so I'd upload the converation for you, I have the gorgeous box set of the bbc version : )

I find Lizzy's conversation with charlotte a little contradictory to her opinion of Darcy... for although she's happy to hold on to her first impression of Darcy and believe it to be the truth, she's keen on saying that Jane can't know Bingley's character too well yet over such a short aquintance - which is more sensible.
Ah how I love charlotte and her pragmatic ways... I always felt she'd got Darcy and Lizzy sussed.

And Caroline Bingley, such a lovely dislikable character, just you wait he might not always put up with your put downs! ; )
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 01:27 am (UTC)
Eventually, he does NOT put up with her put-downs, and nothing is plainer than in the BBC version when Darcy says "What?" in a rude tone when she starts in on Elizabeth. Or when he goes after her after she criticizes Lizzie for being tan. *rubs hands with glee*

If memory serves, Lizzie admits somewhere that she essentially holds onto her impression of Darcy because it pleases her to do so - she gets a kick out of thinking ill of him, then digs her heels in on it (and stays dug long after she ought to have lifted them). After all, Lizzie's not all that introspective in this book until she gets that long letter from Darcy while in Kent and essentially has a massive epiphany.
willowgreen
Jan. 7th, 2011 05:40 am (UTC)
If memory serves, Lizzie admits somewhere that she essentially holds onto her impression of Darcy because it pleases her to do so - she gets a kick out of thinking ill of him, then digs her heels in on it

I was at a party recently where another guest was a woman who irritated me severely at a PTA meeting almost 10 years ago. I hadn't seen or spoken to her since, but I'd pretty much decided to dislike her... and with minimal effort, I succeeded! Fortunately I'm pretty sure I'm not missing out on any Lizzie-Darcy type relationship, but I do totally get where Lizzie is coming from here.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 05:46 am (UTC)
Austen is nothing if not a keen observer and reporter of human nature! :D
rachelswardrobe
Jan. 7th, 2011 10:19 am (UTC)
oh i love that scene, in our house the line - 'her teeth are tolerable I suppose, but nothing out of the common way' always caused hysterics : ) And the cream on the cake is when he responds to this little speech about her appearance : )

I guess once she'd overheard him say she wasn't pretty enough to dance with she kind of has a good reason to hold on to her bad opinion of him, I'd probably be the same, whilst a the same time advising my favourite sister that she should get to know Bingley better to be certain he's the one for her.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 02:36 pm (UTC)
Yeah - we get to see Darcy start to defend her on the next Caroline attack, when she goes on about her hem, "six inches deep in mud", and he says that her eyes were brightened by the exercise. But then he backpedals a bit.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 02:47 pm (UTC)
Oh yeah - I meant to say that I also find that line about her teeth to be hilarious. Like Caroline's assessing a horse or something.
lorrainemt
Jan. 7th, 2011 04:23 am (UTC)
"Meanwhile, let's look in on Mr Darcy's thoughts, shall we?"

Ooh yes--there's nothing I'd rather do this evening, thank you!
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 04:28 am (UTC)
I love how Darcy spent a couple of days making sure his friends knew he found nothing to like about Lizzie, only to start finding things to like. LOL!
reginaclarejane
Jan. 7th, 2011 03:35 pm (UTC)
this is just such a great post- as entertaining a read as the actual book! :)
i loved, "has turned into something approaching a Regency hootenanny..."- hootenanny- hee hee.
i am so enjoying this, kelly!
:)
rachelswardrobe
Jan. 7th, 2011 05:36 pm (UTC)
I would like to second that sentiment, I look forward to reading the next p&p post every day :D
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 06:49 pm (UTC)
Thank you!
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 06:49 pm (UTC)
I am so pleased that someone else finds me as funny as I do - I was very proud of that hootenanny line. :D

And "as entertaining a read as the actual book" made me squee!
rosefiend
Jan. 7th, 2011 04:12 pm (UTC)
I was wondering if Charlotte were a kind of Jane Austen stand-in -- a bit of the author's sensible voice being brought into the work. Esp. when Charlotte, out of the blue, suggests that Lizzie sing a few songs.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 7th, 2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
I am pretty certain that Lizzie Bennet is closest to Jane Austen's actual self, particularly at the age at which she first wrote the story. Full of high spirits, fond of exercise, quick-witted and occasionally sharp-tongued is very much Austen.
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kellyrfineman
Jan. 8th, 2011 02:38 am (UTC)
I was rather tickled with the phrase "Regency hootenanny" myself - I think it conveys why Darcy is perturbed quite clearly, don't you?

And Charlotte's advice is indeed the opposite of "play hard to get", with the caveat that a lot of women who are "playing hard to get" are pretty obviously fixated on the man in question, so it's more of a mutual chase game than a unilateral action.
melted_rachel
Jan. 18th, 2011 06:22 pm (UTC)
Finally playing catch up on this! I was a little worried that because I knew this story so well I wouldn't enjoy it but it's been a while since I read the book (over 10 years I'd say!) so it's great to read all the bits that you don't get to see in the series/film.
kellyrfineman
Jan. 18th, 2011 11:26 pm (UTC)
Austen's books stand up to re-reading quite well. There's always something you catch that you didn't before - either because it went past you too quickly or over your head, or because you're at a different stage in your own life now and have a different knowledge base on which to draw . . .

I'm so glad you're playing catch-up, and I look forward to your comments!
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